To go long and to live better life, navigate yourself thru the people you want to be surrounded with.
Ignore high conflict situations.
Anything involving conflict is not going to be sustainable. Especially, relationships. Whether it can be dating, career, social circle, family, etc, etc.
Anything which blurs your thought process and takes your peace doesn’t deserves to have your attention. Period.
Because where you pour your attention more, manifests. Good or bad.